Archive | January, 2011

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30 Jan

Tomorrow is my 30th birthday. I’ve been in celebration mode all weekend with my birthday party last night, a post-night out, greasy brunch this morning and then dinner with a few friends tomorrow night.

Last night I made everyone dress up for a Suits & Whiskey party. It all started last year when I invited a friend to join me at another person’s birthday party at the Shebeen Whiskey House. I think I’d been watching a lot of How I Met Your Mother at the time, because when I invited him I said “We’ll wear suits, drink whiskey and it will be awesome.” Well, I completely forget mentioning that and did not show up wearing a suit that night. My friend on the other hand did remember. He showed up in a full cream coloured suit. Since then I’ve always talked about making it up to him, so for my 30th birthday I thought I’d combine three of my favourite things in life. Men in suits, whiskey and dancing. I was tempted to show up not wearing a suit again, but I figure it would only be funny to me.

Someone asked me what the highlight of my 20s had been. That got me thinking and I distinctly remember a conversation I had when I was 21 or 22 about where I thought I’d be in life when I turned 30. I figured I’d be married with at least one child by now. Reality couldn’t be farther from the truth, but I also can’t imagine be happier with where I am right now. I think the journey of figuring out who I am and what I want from life has been the highlight of the last decade for me. It feels good to know that I’m entering this next decade of life with an acceptance of who I am, where I am and what I’m doing.

Another person offered some words of advice about entering my 30s. He said that the 20s are about finding the next adventure, but your 30s are about finding ways that you can give back to the world. I’m not sure if it was the whiskey or not, but hearing that left me a little speechless. I realized those are perfect words to hear at a time like this and a great intention to take with me as I enter my 30s.

The Scarf

26 Jan

Never in a million years would I have thought my brother would wear, let alone ask me to knit him something. Days before heading to my parents’ for Christmas he asked if I’d make him a scarf. I dropped all my current projects and decided this must be done.

I found a pattern and asked what colour he wanted. Apparently grey is the new black, so I found some grey Peruvian highland wool and started knitting. Despite the rough weather during the ferry ride over, I was busy knitting. I had hopes of finishing it before heading back home, so every time I turned around I had needles in my hand.

In the end it took a little longer than planned, but last week I mailed off the scarf. I really wanted him to like it, so I kept waiting to hear that the package arrived. Finally on Monday I got a text message. “Got the scarf. I love it!!!” I was so happy! After my last attempt at a knitting project for someone else, I wasn’t sure how this one would go. In the end, I couldn’t be more pleased.

Friendly Neighbours

16 Jan

Friday morning I was running late as usual and rushing out the door when I was hit with this horrible smell as I opened the door. I stepped into the hallway and sitting in front of the door of the apartment across the hall was a bag of dog poo. Despite being told NO DOGS when I moved in, just about every apartment in the building has a dog. I don’t mind for the most part, except for the barking, and well, the dog poo in the hallway.

I’ve come to the conclusion that either the neighbour was storing it in the hallway until she went out to dumpster or it was put there by our other crazy passive aggressive neighbour. I’m guessing it’s the latter, because why wouldn’t she just have put it in the dumpster when she was walking the dog. And having had several run ins with the other neighbour downstairs she’s exactly the type of person who would watch someone not clean up after their dog and then kindly deliver it to their door.

At least living in this building leaves me feeling like the sane, normal one in the group.

A Case of the Mondays…No More

10 Jan

Can you believe we’re already ten days into 2011?! I mean, wasn’t it just Christmas day? And have we had New Years yet?

I’ve been busy settling into a new position at work. “Settling in” might not be the right choice of words. I’ve barely touched down I’ve been so busy. At home, I’ve been trying to focus on taking care of myself. Eating well, taking  naps and getting outside when it’s sunny. Despite it being January in Vancouver, there have been quite a few beautiful days! Yay!

This evening I decided to stay home and catch up on some reading for school. Can you believe I’m actually reading the textbook for this course? And enjoying it too! I’m not sure what has happened to me, but I like it and I’m going with it.

I posted this on Twitter tonight.

It wasn’t until after I’d posted this that I realized I’d had a totally positive Monday. I wasn’t exhausted when I got home from work. I hadn’t once thought “Ugh, I have a case of the Mondays.” I’m excited for tomorrow and all that I have to do, or rather, all that I get to do on a Tuesday.

When I’m nervous, I bake.

3 Jan

When I’m nervous, I bake. Tomorrow is the official start date for my new job. I’m nervous. Despite having spent a week and a half shadowing the person I’m replacing, I have no idea what I’m supposed to do when I get to the office tomorrow. I guess I’ll start by moving things into my new office.

Either way, I’ve dealt with my nerves by baking. In the past three days I’ve made lasagna, empanadas and muffins. I forgot to buy ricotta cheese for the lasagna, but had a block of goat cheese. I crumbled it up and added it as one of the layers, turning my mistake into one of the best ideas I’ve had in 2011 so far.

Last night I spent the evening making empanadas from the Best of America’s Test Kitchen cookbook that my brother gave me for Christmas. It took quite a few hours, but I now have a well stocked freezer with meals ready to go. I’d read about the trick of using vodka or tequila in pastry, but hadn’t tried it until yesterday. It results in a great flaky crust. Unfortunately I missed taking a picture of them, which is really too bad because they looked like perfection if I do say so.

This evening, instead of pacing and worrying about the week ahead, I fell back on my standard banana muffin recipe. I make a dozen every few weeks and put them in the freezer. By the time coffee break rolls around they’re thawed and I have a homemade snack, saving me from the office doughnuts.

Now that all the baking is done and the kitchen is clean, all I have left to do is to have a good sleep tonight so I’m well rested and alert for tomorrow.

The Year of Awesome

1 Jan

I spent a good part of yesterday turning my apartment upside down and getting ready for a clean start to 2011. While I was doing that I tried to think back about all that has happened in the last year. I remember 2009 as being rather crappy, but I can’t remember anything in 2010 that I would rather not have experienced. This morning I browsed through my 2010 blog posts.

The conclusion I’ve come to is that 2010 was the Year of Awesome.

Last year I did a blog meme to review 2009, so here we go answering the same questions a year later.

1. What did you do in 2010 that you’d never done before?
I installed drywall studs with a cordless drill. By myself. It was a turning point for me, and from that moment onward I felt totally independent.

2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
I’m not a new year’s resolution person. If there’s a change I’d like to make, I’d rather start now than wait for a certain date to take action.

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
I saw babies born on Facebook, but no one close to me. Well, not the actual birth, that would be gross, but you know what I mean.

4. Did anyone close to you die?
Thankfully no one close to me. I did go to one funeral for a person I respected and was thankful for the work he’d done in life.

5. What countries did you visit?
Eeks…I don’t think I left the country at all in 2010.

6. What would you like to have in 2011 that you lacked in 2010?
More time with my family that isn’t rushed and hurried.

7. What dates from 2010 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
February 2010 – The Vancouver 2010 Olympics.

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Reaching that comfortable stride of being me. Accepting the crazy cat lady, the neurotic worrier, the quirky collector, and the dorky knitter in me. All the while not ignoring the part of me that likes to visit McDonald’s at 4:00 a.m. for a Big Mac.

9. What was your biggest failure?
I still over commit and worry about all the things I have to do. Remember the sketchbook? It’s still pretty much empty. Remember Reverb10? I never got past Day Four. I knew going in to both of those that I had very little spare time.

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
Nothing other than a little food poisoning from sushi I knew I shouldn’t eat, a bad back from lifting things I knew were too heavy, and rolling my ankle in heels I knew were too high.

11. What was the best thing you bought?
Heels that are too high. They’re ridiculous and I love them.

12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
It’s a tie between Jen and Nate, and Rebecca and Zoe. I love Jen and Nate’s story and their wedding was definitely worthy of a celebration. I watched Rebecca and Zoe do their first triathlon. I was so proud to call them my friends and was very inspired by their drive and ability.

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?
The birds in Angry Birds. Sometimes their behaviour was so disappointing. They really should have been able to kill that pig!

14. Where did most of your money go?
Rent? Food? Who knows…at least it wasn’t on strippers and whiskey…

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
Strippers and whiskey. Or Angry Birds.

16. What song will always remind you of 2010?
Dog Days Are Over by Florence and the Machine

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:
a) happier or sadder? Happier!
b) thinner or fatter? After that thing called Christmas, I’m going to say fatter.
c) richer or poorer? About the same.

18. What do you wish you’d done more of?
Traveling.

19. What do you wish you’d done less of?
Procrastinating, worrying and waiting.

20. How did you spend Christmas?
Laughing with my parents and brother.

21. Did you fall in love in 2010?
Nope!

22. What was your favorite TV program?
I got sucked into watching five seasons of How I Met Your Mother in 2010, so I guess that would have to be it.

23. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
I’m done with hating and hanging on.

24. What was the best book you read?
I’m a pathetic reader. I can never make myself sit down to read without instantly falling asleep. I did make it most of the way through Kitchen Confidential by Anthony Bourdain though.

25. What was your greatest musical discovery?
Without a doubt, The Black Keys.

26. What did you want and get?
I’d always wanted to see Cirque du Soleil and was taken to see Kooza in August.

27. What did you want and not get?
Every woman needs to own a set of curlers. I’ve been lusting after a set for a few months now, but can never quite justify the purchase.

28. What was your favorite film of this year?
Black Swan. It was creepy, trippy, dark and left me speechless.

Hard Ticket To Hawaii also left  me speechless, but in a different way. And yes Pilgrim, I watched the entire movie.

29. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
I was 29 and I went for high tea.

30. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
I’ll risk sounding corny and overly optimistic, but I don’t think there could have been anything. I’m entirely satisfied  2010.

31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2009?
Knitted accessories with heels that are too high.

32. What kept you sane?
My friends and family. They may drive me insane sometimes, but they are also my rock.

33. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
Hugh Jackman is still at the top of my list (this STILL makes me happy), but if we’re looking at celebrities that I admire I’d have to say Meryl Streep. There isn’t anything more elegant and polished than Meryl Streep in a white pant suit. She’s not afraid to tell it like it is and will flirt with the line of inappropriate but never cross it.

34. What political issue stirred you the most?
Can’t say I got too wrapped up in anything political this year. Politics are kind of like reading for me. I’m embarrassed by my lack of involvement and knowledge, but I never make it past the intention of doing something about it.

35. Who did you miss?
My Grannie. Her words of advice have jumped in my mind many times this year.

36. Who was the best new person you met?
I can’t pick one person. Everyone I’ve met this year offers something unique and I value it all.

37. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2010.
The 50% Rule. Always drink 50% of what everyone else is drinking!!

38. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year.
“Leave all your lonely behind, you can’t carry it with you if you want to survive,” from Dog Days Are Over by Florence and the Machine.

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